I have fallen victim to this many times before. I will say that things will work out as soon as I lose weight or get healthier. Then I’ll have the confidence to take action and be successful. What I was really telling myself is that I didn’t believe that I was good enough now to make an impact and be successful. Now weight isn’t the hurdle for everyone, but it is for me. For you it might be getting the next promotion, or earning someone’s love, etc. Either way, I believe that most of us find an excuse to talk ourselves out of reaching our greatness because deep down we don’t believe we are perfect enough to deserve it. You’ll just continue to wait for someday to come, and guess what, It won’t!
Fuck that!! Life doesn’t work that way and no one is perfect! You need to have the courage to try your best today and not sit on the sidelines because you are scared to fail. If you laugh at your mistakes and failures, the other will laugh along with you, not at you. Plus, your humility will earn the respect of the others around you. Plus you’ll have the off-chance that you might actually succeed at what you are doing. Imagine that!
Never stop believing in yourself! Talk to you soon 🙂