So you’ve just went through an ugly divorce. There are a lot of hurt feelings, name calling back and forth, and other unfortunate circumstances. Oh yeah, and you’ve just gone through the trial and tribulations of a dragged out court process and new partners introduced to the equation. I get it! It’s no secret why you have so much anger towards each other.
Still, you need to be mature enough as a parent to not put you’re kids in the middle. This is a tough time for them as well, and the scars they get from being caught in the middle can last a lifetime! Let them call the other parent whenever they ask. Don’t bad mouth the other parent when they are with you. The advice is nothing new, but often not followed!
I understand that it is an extremely emotional time, and I 100% empathize with you if you are in this unfortunate situation. Just focus on the kids and yourself. You’ll be surprised how one day things just get better miraculously.
Never stop believing in yourself! Talk to you soon 🙂